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My wife and I have been married for 7yrs, she has 3 kids that live with their father and who come to our house every other wknd and 2 weeknights, I have 1 son with my ex wife, whom I get every other wknd fri-sun. My dilema is this--I have worked every sat for the last 7 yrs and my wife thinks that by my 12yr old son being in our house while I am at work, that I am taking advantage of her. I say this is crazy, I am not out goofing off I am working! My wife knew I had a son when she married me and she knew I worked 6 days a wk. My wife is insisting that I take my son to my mothers house which is 30 miles away,and pick him up when I get off work. My son lives 100 miles away so the extra driving is very time consuming and expensive. Am I wrong to think that my son has every right to be in our house when I am working and that as his stepmother it should not be a problem?? She also claims that I should not purchase clothes for him to keep at our house and that he should always bring clothes from his mothers, while her children have closets full, mainly paid for by money that I made working..