I'm not sure what to do here. The BM and I are not married, but living together. After they moved in, her son, 11, has given me the silent treatment. He's made several remarks about hating life and the world would be better without him. After he and his mother spoke, it was revealed to me that I'm the cause of the suicidal thoughts. I really love that child and his mother. I treat him as though he were my own flesh and blood. I've been asked to move out of my own home so that the child has stability and familiarity in his life. The situation has caused the relationship with his mother and I to flounder. I am completely flabbergasted with all of this and do not know how to handle this. Years ago I would have given them all the boot, but I care too much to let them go. Any suggestions?