Do you like one more than the other?
Since browsing this forum and a few others, plus reading "Stepmonster", I have been examining my feelings more. Even though both SD11 and SS7 have some serious issues with manner, respect, and gratefulness, I do find myself "liking" one a lot more than the other. SS7 does treat me a lot better than SD11 and I find myself gravitating towards him a lot more. I just went through my xmas budget and I even showed preferential treatment there and spent double on him than I did her.
What do you do when you like one more than the other?