......and Christmas is coming
This is my first real "Christmas" with the step-kids and ex wife situation. About a week ago, my fiance 6 yr. old daughter said (in front of ex wife), "we have you (me) on our 'give list' for Christmas. The ex agreed and then we went on with our business.
So, my question is: "What is appropriate when it comes to Christmas and giving the (mean/jealous) ex a gift?" What is the best gift that isn't (I guess) too personal, but not insulting? Just a note, the ex wife is still in love with my fiance and reminds me/him a few times a week.
I worry (even when a child picks it out) that she'll either get a glimmer of hope of getting back together with my man or insulted to the point of no return.
Anyways, there is probably no perfect answer to this one, but I will throw this out there to see if anyone has had a similar problem. Thanks.