BM in Rehab
Hello all and Happy Turkey Day,
I have been with DH for 4 years and SS is 8. I have a DD 6. Great Kids! HOWEVER
BM is barely in the picture and we live 4 hours from her, but the in laws live near her. So, sometimes we take SS to visit BM's mom. Well, they ran with that because every time there is a holiday they want to see him. We take him over and back him up next day no biggy.
Well, BM is in Rehab for the second time SS has never visited but, BM's mom wants to have him visit. Is that appropriate or not? Will it screw him up or help him?
She is a mess will most likely cry and get him upset. but, i jsut don't know what the right thing to do is.
And we want to do what is best for him.
To have DH take him to visit BM or not...? or a possibly BM's mom and sister pick SS up and visit her....
This would happen this Black Friday.