How is old enough?
I have heard many people on here talk about telling kids the truth. So how old is old enough to discuss the truth with them? Is it ever appropriate for me to add my two cents in and agree with my sd's when they are complaining over a lie from bm?
Can I say "your right, there are phones everywhere now a days and bm was just making excuses for not calling you"?
Can I say "I also think it is wrong that bm did not show up to get you or even call to tell you she was not planning on coming"?
Can I say "yes it is ridiculous that bm lives 10 minutes from us and refuses to take you or even show up to watch your games"?
Or do I always have to sit back and listen to their complaints, but keep from validating them?
Sometimes I wish that I could point out to the younger two when bm was lying, instead of watching them eat up the lies and hang on bm's every word like it was the absolute truth.