Geez! Here We Go Again This Weekend!!!
So since DH gets 1st, 3rd, and 5th Weekends for his monthly visitation....... He gets SD this weekend.
BM tried to ruin last weekend with the "pseudo illness" and now this weekend... It is supposedly a "casting call" for a Fashion Show.
DH has to explain to her again that he is not giving up his visitation weekends for any reason due to the fact she has used these things and lied before to block his weekend.
He reminded her that the court order now states - BM is not to schedule any type of event on DH's weekend. AND if she wishes to do so, she has to notify DH in writting 4 weeks in advance and he has to agree in writting. SHE CALLS and lets him know last night that she is keeping SD so that she can attend the casting call and be in the fashion show.
THEN got upset when DH tells her that since she did not follow the court order and once again scheduled something on his weekend... He is not going for it and is not giving up the time.
He lives out of state and only gets to see his daughter a total of maybe 4 - 6 (sometimes 9) days a month out of 30 - 31 days in any given month that dont have an holiday... Why is it so hard for her to understand that he WANTS to spend time with his daughter and the courts have put an order in place to make sure he gets that time. WHY is it so hard for her not to schedule things on his weekends.
Geez! Seems like the pep talk the Judge gave BM back in September at the custody hearing meant nothing. DH gets Thanksgiving this year for the first time since SD has been born (she is now 6 almost 7) and I am already wondering what excuse BM will come up with to try and block that holiday.
BM's shenanigan's are getting so very old...... DH has tried to be fair with her, keep the peace, and be cordial but she really makes it hard on any given time he has to deal with her. It is a dang shame!