'when BM was pregnant'-your opinion
Just wondering if my SO is insensitive a$$ or not. LOL
SD is pregnant, of course every phone conversation, which goes on for an hour sometimes, is about her pregnancy, which is fine with me. Sometimes daily phone calls and two times a day on the weekend discussing every detail about pregnancy seems excessive, but then again everyone is different and she has rights to talk to her dad as much as she wants. In fact it is great she wants to share. So no problem there.
Now, my SO never ever mentions BM since kids are grown and BM stopped bothering anyone, he has no reason to even mention her.
Last two nights I overheard, well it is impossible not to overhear in our house, unless one hides in the bathroom things like "when your mom was pregnant with you", "your mom was showing at such and such month", "your mom was sick in this or that way", "your mom also wanted this or that pregnant". I don't think SO realized that i heard, but frankly I felt weird. I am not upset by no means but wonder...
I recalled that 2 years ago i attended some event with DD, my ex, and ex's wife who was pregnant at the time. My ex proceeded discussing my pregnancy 9when I expected DD), how I felt and then how labor went trying to comfort his wife I guess. I don't know how his wife felt but I tried to change the topic. I think my ex was insensitive a$$. LOl
So what do you think? I am not going to say anything to SO, I am just wondering what others think..insensitive or not a big deal?