Shaking my head
DH has been trying hard to keep BM from using SS as pathway excuse to get on the phone with him.
Thanks for all your suggestions---DH did the "stepping into another rooom after taking the phone from SS, hanging up and turning off the ringer thing the other night."
BM sent a couple pissy texts but seemed to get the hint.
Until this morning. She called to talk to SS and then a few minutes later, "Daaaad! Mom has an emergency, she needs to talk to you."
DH took the phone and was very short.
"I don't remember."
"No I have no way of getting it. Bye."
I asked him later what it was about, and he said BM has a "toothache" (probably true, she seems to be prone to them, probably from smoking) and apparently last year he referred her to a dentist---the father of a business partner of his. (whom he no longer works with.)
Then he proceeds to tell me, "I wouldn't have given her the ## again, anyway, because last year she never paid her bill and I ended paying it."
Ladies--I about flew through the roof. Okay, I didn't. I bit my tongue HARD because my therapist maintains I need to SIT with things and not make a bad sitation worse until I get myself in a good place.
But GEEEEZ. DH (which means WE) paid BM's dentist bill?????? FOR REAL?
Come on. I am so mad!
Just had to vent!