IV D Issues
Ok, so my dh did file with the Title IV D office. Problem is he's had to file with the old county where the case is out of..... it's probably the 2nd biggest county in Indiana. Anyway, they are plum lazy!!! They don't like doing their jobs properly. We asked them about wage withholding and why she hadn't gotten one issued yet. It clearly states in Indiana's child support rules and guidelines that Title IV D CAN issue one when there isn't one issued or ordered. They stated to my dh that because it's not in the court order they didn't know what they could do. I've spoken to my counties office and to someone who worked out of another county.... that's absolutely WRONG! UGH!! I hate government workers who can't simply do their job. How hard would it be to issue the IWO? Not hard.... I've been told by my caseworker they enter the payors ss number into a computer and it brings up any employers they then issue the iwo. This county working my dh's case can't seem to figure that out and they're HUGE! OMG!
BM did state that they are all over her though and have threatened warrants. HAHA! That does make me happy. Though it's not done one bit of good yet cause she's yet to make any payments towards arrearages. She told dh she'd send some money out today... but I'm guessing it's just 4 weeks worth like she usually sends when she does send. She also told dh that she just doesn't get why they're all over her.... her dad owed her mom $50,000 and he never got put in jail. So... I'm SOOOOOOO glad we filed Title IV D cause to me it sounds like she never had any intentions of ever staying current with her support. Now maybe..... MAYBE she'll be scared enough to get her crap together. We shall see.
She's not getting ss for her weekend in October. We have plans to go to NY for fall break... end of month. She wanted him then, he told her he wanted to go with us. He knew we were going, we didn't know which weekend she wanted till yesterday so he told her without even discussing it with us that he was going with us. Ok by me. She then asked if he wanted to come this weekend or next, he said no. He wants to go to his football practices and games. So she told dh she'd just get him at Thanksgiving. None of this was discussed with dh prior to her conversation with ss. So we were NOT an influence as to his decisions. She said her feelings were hurt... wah wah wah!!!! If she was truely that upset in my opinion she'd get her butt in the car and drive over to watch him play one of his games. She doesn't care to do that. UGH!