A little mad at the system....
So its been quite a while since we gave the state copies of my dh's custody agreement. And as far as we know bm's welfare has not been cut off! When I go to our states welfare site I can still log on with my skids social security #'s. And since bm sent a late card for ss's b-day recently I am assuming she is not in jail.
So while we are here paying for everything she is sitting in another state collecting 2 states worth of welfare for 3 kids she does not support.
Guess this is where the quote "Life isn't always fair" applies huh? Just makes me mad that money is going to her instead of someone who needs it and really qualifies!