Stepdaughter Weekend Visitation
Here is my problem. My fiance has a 17 y.o. daughter. The living arrangement is that she stays with her mother through the week, then spends every other weekend with her father. (Her father is off only every other weekend). Her father and I are in a long distance relationship so I see him only once a month. My problem is this. I would be delighted to spend time with her, and include her in our plans except as a teenager she never knows her plans until the last minute. Never in advance. Even then her plans change or involve more people (like her boyfriend) Her father and I cannot make any plans until she tells us what she is doing. I must confess that I feel resentful of being held hostage by a capricious teenager.