BM and DH attending events together?
What do you ladies think about this? I will be out of town for a seminar for a week. During that time, SD has a performance at her college, which is two hours away from our home and that of BM. BM called and asked if DH would give her a ride. Her DH has another obligation and cannot attend. BM hates to drive and there is no easy other way to get there.
So, presumably my DH and BM will spend pretty much the whole day together, as a couple and with SD. In the past we have gone to SD's college and given BM a ride, but as soon as we get there, BM usually branches out on her own. I am guessing this time she won't. When it is the three or four of us, it works out that she and I do most of the talking because DH is uncomfortable with her (and he and her DH tend to talk more), but it is clear to me that she would prefer the focus be between her and my DH. She (or they) always sit with us at the event.
I'm not asking that DH turn down her request, since it is a rare set of circumstances, but it still feels kind of uncomfortable for me. Would it for you?