My son is now in college.Because of the storm, my SD could not meet us at my son's school.
But now, my SD (his older half-sister) wants to visit him. He's incredibly busy at school with tests and papers, doesn't want her to come. My wife is pressuring him to "make time" for his sister.
I'd like to remind my son to stand up for himself, tell her to come another time or set a time limit, etc. But if I tread into this area, it sounds like I'm trying to stop my son and SD from seeing each other.
If the situation were reversed, my wife would be telling my son to respect his sister's needs, wishes, etc. I feel like my son needs to know it is okay to put his foot down.