The dress -- part two
In response to your post -
"Finally, kkny, when your advice to the OP was to
"tell her DD to "stall if Dad wants to "help" her with shopping" and "not to tell Dad about any parties",
you did not reply to my question. Is this something you tell your DD to do with her her own Dad? Can anyone else answer this question for me in their own situation, does anyone do this? "
I havent had that situation, becuase dad would not have bought a dress for a dance without DD being there or EXPLICITY agreeing to. He has too much common sense. But if Dad and SM are going to get angry if they buy clothes and SD wont wear them, I dont see what else to do.