Need some advices or wisdoms from you
Background: we have a blended family with 3 teenagers each. I was a widower and my w was divorced.
My youngest daughter, had some problems w her s sister, but apparently they worked it out. The S sis told the mom, and the SM confronted my D. Several months later now, and after some therapy, my D finally let me know her sad feeling that the S Sis had the mom to back her up while my D had nobody. In the past, i have noticed that my wife tendency was to jump on my chidren when they did or said something to her kids. I guess my w feel her kids are helpless so she needs to intervene (or is it just a motherly instinct of her part?)
What is the appropriate thing for me to say to my wife, without offending her? I would like to hear from some Step moms here.