New here, need advice
I have one step daughter. Her father and I have been together almost 9 years and married over 3. We are expecting our first child together any day now. When we told her we were pregnant, she said "you don't need anymore kids". She is 20 years old and that was her reaction. DH told her that he wasn't asking permission, that we made this decision together and are happy with it.
Well fast forward 5 months, guess who's pregnant? YEP, SD. She has no job, no education, and no where to live and got pregnant on purpose. Why? Because she thought that DH would leave me to take care of her since she is pregnant. Boy was she mad when he informed her that she is on her own and not to come to him for help no matter what she needs.
I know that I shouldn't complain since DH is putting me and our new baby first, but really, how can someone be that selfish? I really want to distance myself from this whole situation. Any advice?