A new issue..advice please
My boyfriend has said that he would like us to get out pictures taken for Christmas this year..which I think is a great idea...my question is this..he has made no reference to his daughter...she lives in California and has still yet to come to see us at our home..she can never make it...anyways...do I include her in the pictures?? My heart is not in it..but I feel it is the right thing to do...I also feel like what the heck is wrong with me..that is his daughter and my heart should be in it..shouldnt it?? So do we do pics with my girls, myself and BF..do I wait for him to bring up his daughter..or do I bring up the subject of having his daughter take portraits with us...or leave it as just us without her??? And please..someone tell me how to feel better about this whole boyfriends daughter situation..I want to accept her, I want to have open arms and an open heart...I WANT to...but I just havent been able to...any suggestions please??