Expected to act like a stepmom
I have been with my partner for the past yer and a half. He has been living in my house for a year and has 2 kids that spend every other weekend with us. I do not have kids of my own and do not look at my partner's kids as my own. This has become a huge issue for us.
He thinks I should be treating them as my own family but I think this is an unrealistic expectation as they are not my family. We are not married, engaged or even close to entertaining the thought. Am I wrong for not wanting to pretend I'm a stepmom when I'm not or are his expectations of me too high?