Should I go???
My husband is meeting his 24 year old son for the first time. He last saw him when he was 5years old. Recently my husband began the search and found him. His son didn't want to contact my husband directly so they were going thru his sons mom. My husband and she had been in contact thru email. I had no problem with her being the middle person until her emails became inappropriate.
My husband told her right away what his intensions were and they had nothing to do with her. However it has become a bigger problem than I could ever imagine. I just thought this was going to be about his son I had no ideas she was included. (She is currently on her 3rd marriage)
My husband and his son are scheduled to meet and his son's mom is going to be there because his son doesnt want to do it alone. However I have been advised by Friends & Family to attend the meeting? I honestly donÂt want to go and I hope that after they meet she steps out of the picture, but I also donÂt want to regret not going if she doesnÂt back off. I have been quietly supporting my husband and trying to be as understanding as any human being could. Should I make my presence known? Please tell me what you think???