Hi There Cool People with great advice!
I'm sad. I don't have my kids this weekend. My finance was going to get a full weekend pass from his soberity house, we haven't spent much time together lately.
Plans have changed. Now it is Friday about 5pm to Saturday at 11am only. For good reason:
The AA club is having a big picnic on Saturday. He volunteered to help set up at the park and then will attend the picnic also. He needs to do things like this, I support that 100%!
I'm sad because I know family is invited to the picnic and he didn't invite me. He has excluded me from his entire recovery program (he tells me what's going on, but I haven't been to any meetings or group things).
I have brought it up briefly and he kinda skirts around it and doesn't give concrete answers. Honestly, I just don't think he is ready to share this new world he has, it is his safely zone right now. Still makes me sad.