Not much a parent can do...
SS told DH last night that he can't take a bath or shower ar his mom's house anymore. DH asked him why and he said because the "hot water is broken."
I am SURE that their gas must be disconnected.
DH said "well, what do you do?" and SS said that his mom takes him and his little sister over to grandma's house to take baths.
It just sucks. :( Things are obviously really bad over there and there is not much, short of filing a motion to modify, that DH can do.
I don't know when it would be *enough* for him to do that. At this point, would the courts care?
It's one thing to hit rough times, have to cut out extras, etc. I can understand that. But when BM tells DH they have no food, and when she is complaining that she doesn't have enough gas to drive to pick SS up, and now this with the hot water....I mean, at what point do you step in?
It's sad. :(