Well I dont know where to really begin but I will try to be as clear as possible and hope for the best. My girlfriend and I have been together for over 3 years now, when we got together I only had custody of my kids every other weekend. 2 years ago we had drastic changes which has left us with my kids pretty much full time. At first we were doing good but lately she has gotten it stuck in her head that my children hate her, which really the opposite is true. So we have had alot of arguements in which she says that she is tired of trying to be the good step parent and just ending up hated for it. She has it cemented in her head that my kids hate her and even when we argue I ask her how she has come to the conclusion that my kids dont like her to no avail.. If anyone has any suggestions I am very open to hearing them, I dont know where to go from here cause I love my girlfriend and respect her feeling but dont really know how to tell her that her feelings are offbase.