Dealing with the fact my fiance has a child
I can't seem to cope with the fact of knowing my fiance has a child... We recently got engaged and next thing you know I am getting a phone call for my fiance to go in and have a paternity test. Well in the end to find out it is his. The child is 2 years old and just now finding out it is his child. My fiances dad has been seeing the child already and yet my fiance has been keeping it from me and hasn't been telling me anything. He doesn't want to ever talk to me about it.. I just don't know how to deal with it... I thought I was going to be his first for the child which made me so happy, but now everything is changing and I don't know how to deal with it especially now that he is starting to keep things from me and lie. He doesn't think anything is going to change, and in all reality it is going to change things... I just don't know if I can handle the drama that's about to come.