I have been married to my husband for over a year now. My SS 9 currently lives with his grandparents and wants to live with us. My problem is that it seems like I am dealing with a 3 year old instead of a 9 year old!!! My in-laws treat my SS like he is still a baby and spoil him WAY too much! They don't even let him play in the back yard unless someone is out there with him because they fear he will get hurt or the sun will be too much for him! How do I handle my SS and talk to my in-laws about this?