DH has custody & all decision making in parenting agreement. BM was supposed to have SD for a week in June. She told DH that she wasn't going to take SD for her week. She called tonight asking to take SD in Aug. DH said "No, it states in the agreement that if you don't take her you forfeit your vacation week"! That didn't go over at all. He told her we already have plans (we really do)! Now she's telling him that she's going to mediation if we don't change our plans. Uh, no way,we booked the hotel.
She has the same copy we do, she's known forever when her week is.
My question is this: Would a mediator or judge really make us change our plans or accomodate her when she refuses to follow the parenting plan?
This is not unusual for her to not take her daughter when she's supposed to.It's actually quite common.