Horrible event and warning
Without going into details obviously protecting confidentiality, here is what happened: one of my students was sexually abused by her stepfather. He's been arrested yesterday and she is safe.
He was one of those very involved stepparents, always at parent teacher conferences, always wanting babysit her (when she was younger), always watching over her, always driving her places etc (he was married to her mother for 7 years). If you would meet him you would never think he could do anything like that, you'd think how much he loves his SD.
I don't want to and can't go into details what exactly happened and how it came out but I want to warn women with young daughters. And I want stepfathers to understand why women might be careful let their boyfriends/husbands be too close to their daughters. She'll have to live with this trauma her whole life.
Makes me glad I didn't bring strange men in my daughter's life when she was young.
Please be careful,ladies.