I hate my step son
Please help me, I will try to make the story as short as I can. I knew my husband for 2 weeks before I moved in with him and for 1 year before we got married. In that 1 year span we saw his son maybe 5 times, maybe. The day after we got married, he went and got his son and we had him for a week. And now we have him every single weekend. Now I haven't been around many children, but I assume his behavior his comparrisable to any 3 year old. Fit throwing bed wetting little brat most the time. His father NEVER punishes him for anything. He is allowed to do what he wants whenever he wants. After we got married his BM had him calling me trash. He already bad mouths me and tells me I am not his mom. I spend my weekends locked in the bedroom, wishign it was over. I hate him, I have never felt so much hate for anything in my entire life. I can have a perfectly nice week come home and realize its Friday and I am in an instant bad mood. It upsets me how much I dislike this child. My husband could care less how I feel, he claims his child comes first but then we get him and he sits him in front of the tv all weekend. He says he cant punish him because he feels guilty. BS I say! I have tried and tried to bond with my SS. I have tried taking him to do things ont he weekends and trying to play with him since his dad doesnt but it seems he hates me just as much as I hate him. If my husband runs any errands on the weekends and leaves the step son here he cries the whole time, he even cried once for 8 hours. Does anyone have any ideas on how to even tolerate my SS. It has gotten to the point where divorce seems like the only way out. I love my husband but I just cannot tolerate his son. Please help!!