Some advice PLEASE!!! All Hell has broken loose in our blended family... I'm the SM. I begain dating the BD when his daughter was 18 mo. Got married when she was 3 and now she's 6. Relations between BD and BM were initially not good so with both of their permission, I have, for the past 4 years been scheduling with the BM with no problems.
Well, she just got married 2 months ago and all of the sudden she refuses to talk to me, refuses to meet to schedule for the summer, and alleges that I hound her about things and doesn't need me to be the mediator for the next 12 years. She has asked me to leave her new family alone.
I'm so confused and don't know where to go with it. My intentions are good but should I just back off or what?
Any advice or similar situation would be greatly appreciated.