Well, my ss went to his moms today for the last 7 weeks of summer. In the past few weeks he's told me that if he comes back with a black eye it's the new husbands son's fault. You know... the one who cusses and jumps on furniture, etc.... He also told me that this kid who just turned 12 has been to the jail for breaking into someones home. Then today... we had lunch right before pick up and he brought up the kids name.... told all of us that they went out one time and this kid went around and asked everyone for the wifi password cause he just couldn't live without playing his ipod. My ss said he was soooo embarrassed. Then he told us that this kids brother... from his mom is going to be with them the whole time as well.... so my ss bm new husband's ex ss is going to spend summer with them too. I think that's kind of weird!! I asked ss how that would be and he said it'd be worse.... that they are HORRIBLE together and that they gang up on him. I told him to make sure he tells his mom. He then said that they threaten to beat him up if he tells. Ok... so kid who is 12 and older brother... probably 15 or so... WORSE together.... OMG!!!! I'm so nervous! My dh told my ss that he needs to get his mom and if that doesn't help he needs to call him and he will speak to bm. I just have a feeling she won't do anything because that would upset her new dh.
I've spoken to this guys ex... whom he has a child with that he abandoned and she says these two together is hell. AND that he NEVER disciplines him or says two words to him about the behavior. Anytime she'd say something he defended the brats and that was a BIG part of their problem. SO... I don't think bm has a chance to even address the problems. I'm so nervous that ss is going to get wrapped into their mess. I really hope he's ok for that long. I really hope he stays to himself and out of trouble. I have a feeling this summer will be it. If they are that bad... ss will NOT want to go back for this length of time.