ceremony family uniting ideas
I would like some ideas for a "uniting family" activity to do sometime in the ceremony. I was thinking of having my fiance and myself do the unity candle, then having him light candles that each of his sons hold, then the 4 of us lighting a "family unity candle". My only problem with this is that we are having an outdoor wedding...what if it is really windy?? or, gulp, rainy? rainy and windy?? OK, now I'm imagining the worst...LOL.
Any other ideas as to how we can symbolically unite the 4 of us as a family? FUI: His sons are 16 + 17 and their mother passed away quite a few years ago. Thanks!