Hello everyone - its been awhile since i have been on but i am back - with more drama - go fig..
BM said she would agree to our attorneys terms - well she didnt - she slipped in her own offer asking for 5 wks during the summer... DH told our attorney he didnt even want to read it just send itback.
since then alot has been going on
BM has been fighting alot with her b/f. Every visit we would hear of things going on.
last weekend SD had her over night visit with BM.
Her b.f called dh and felt the need to to let him know he kicked the door in. He said it was locked BM wouldnt open it so he kicked it. We havent seen b/f for some time just b/f calling dh. DH didnt really know what to say he asked if dd was ok and what all happened. We let attorney know the next day.
on one of sd phone calls with bm (not to be monitored but dh feels the need for obvious reasons) BM was going on and on to sd about how boyfriends are bad and cause nothing but stress - she told sd its so important she finds a good man and a good boyfriend or just stay single. sd is only 7 dh and i both felt it was so inappropriate. this lasted almost 15 minutes - finally dh did grab the phone and asked bm why she feels the need to talk to a 7 yr old about men and relationships and her problems with her b/f. she of course yelled and he hung up. ok maybe he was wrong but i must admit i agree with his decision - im used to getting negative feedback on this site so yes im ready.
brings me to today.
I had a knock at my door and looked thru my peep whole and saw bm b/f.. ugh i didnt answer. i didnt want to deal with him all day until dh got home. he went next door to my friends house. turns out - bm came home drunk last night with 3 friends and they got into an arguement - turned into a fight. (all this according to b/f) my friend say he had scratches and bite marks all over (mind you bm bit sd too when she was 1) he told my friend that all he did was push her off but since she had 3 witness to agree to her story - he was arrested. he did say CPS was going to be involved b/c a officer told them because BM hit him while holding thier dd (2) same thing she did to my dh in 2008 (hit dh while holding sd in arms) he said he wants me to take pics of him and he wants to testify against her for our custody trial july 20th. By the time i checked my phone and saw my friends text about whats going on - he was gone.I did email attorney and let her know its up to her. I know there is pros and cons so i will just do what she says. idk if im looking for advice or just wanted to tell my story.. its never ending