My girlfriend's Kids
I have been with my girlfriend for almost 4 years. I love her very much. She has 2 kids, a boy and a girl. They are 22 and 19 years old. They are extremely disrespectful to her. They curse her out, and insult her left and right. They do this in front of anyone. The girl has even gone as far as hitting her. They have even told her that they hate her and like to see her cry. They have told her that she is obligated to support them.. They do not help their mother with literally anything. They destroy the house and do not clean up any mess that they have made. They have no respect for anyone's personal things. They use things that do not even belong to them and either never put them back or destroy them. They spend the whole day in the house sleeping and going out at night. I have never said anything to them about any of their lack of responsiblity for anyone or anything. I have told my girlfriend that I hate the way they treat her, and what they do is not right. There is no reason we have to clean up after them as if they were 5 years old. The problem with me telling her that it bothers me, is that it causes a fight between us. She tells me I'm wrong for getting upset. That they are kids and I'm being ridiculous. As much as it would hurt me, I'm thinking of leaving her. I just can't deal with her kids anymore. I feel as if I'm not allowed to have any type of opinion or reaction to anything. She has had many of nights where she goes to sleep crying and I don't say anything to her just to avoid a fight. I'am really starting to hate her kids. Please give me some feedback. I want to hear what you think.