My husbands first marriage was really hard on him, but he stayed in it for his kids. His kids learned from their mother to abuse dad and so when I came into the picture they did the same to me. They were all adults except for one. The 16-year-old has schizophrenia and other mental health issues. She scares me and has threatened harm. I have a young baby in the house whom she once grabbed and would not give back to me. This is just one example. I have been so stressed and terrorized by her. My friends say just lay down the law, but that is not my personality. She would not listen anyway. So I have tried everything from limitless shopping sprees and talking to her and sharing stuff from my past, but nothing works. I am getting to the point where I do not want to be in danger or put my young one in danger. She has many people, aunts, uncles and siblings that she could go live with that feel that all this is because dad remarried and he had no right to do that. In other words, I deserve what she is doing. I bought the house we currently live in. I bought it for us to be a family in but it is mine and I do not feel safe in it. She has been in trouble with the law and was temporary placed in a youth facility. What are my rights if a court decides she is to return here? The court says she belongs with her father. Under normal circumstances I would say so too. She is really good at manipulation and people believe her lies. Do I subject my baby and myself to this if it is my house? What do I do?