My fiance has single friends and married friends and I know the single ones will push to go to the nudie bars and what not. My fiance is not oppossed to the idea, but I am. I think he can have just as much fun without the naked girls. He says it is a tradition with all of his friends to do that. I contacted his best man and stated my feelings and he assured me that my wishes would be honored.
The other problem is that my fiance is against the girls having my party and his on the same night. I like the idea of meeting up afterwards, but he says he won't have any fun if I am out somewhere. What have you all done for your parties?
In fact, being an older bride (35) I am torn between having the traditional girls night out and just going to a spa or something. Most of my girlfriends and bridesmaids want the night out.