Am I off base?
I need a little reality check here.
My BF (of 6 yrs) is in his cousin's wedding.
I was invited to the bridal shower, so I am going to drive to another state for it.
I did not receive an invitation to the wedding, which I thought was odd, but assume that I am 'and guest.' (BF and I do not live together) Now I find out that she doesn't want me to attend the rehearsal dinner with him, even though I have to come in from out of state the night before for a 10AM wedding.
Am I wrong in feeling like its incredibly tacky of her to invite me to the bridal shower, which means I have to get her another gift, and then just treat me like a random date of one of her guests? (BTW, she and her mother are throwing her bridal shower, which is tacky in itself, so its not like she doesn't know that I was invited to that.)
Obviously, I'm going to go and be gracious and find something to do with myself while my BF is at the rehearsal dinner, but I'm still feeling rather annoyed- am I overreacting?
Thanks for letting me vent.