2 brides at my wedding
hello everyone..i have a big problem...
my wedding is in june of this year. i'm only having a small ceremony, with only a best man, a groomsman, a maid of honor, and a bridesmaid. here's the problem. my bridesmaid is going to be my best friend from high school. we lost contact over the years and recently caught up with each other by email and phone. she was more than happy to be a bridesmaid for me. she decided to get her dress at a place near her, since she lives about 2 hours from me. that's fine with me. however, she recently emailed me a picture of the gown she chose...AN IVORY WEDDING GOWN! i explained to her that it was going to look like there were 2 brides there and asked if she could change the color or borrow a dress from someone (so she wouldn't have to buy another one). i did explain the colors of my wedding to her before she ordered the dress, and asked her to get one in a purple, so it's not like she misunderstood. i also told her she didn't have to get anything expensive, and something she could wear again if she preferred. she refuses to even try to get another dress, simply saying:
"its already been ordered sorry". thats it. and she just ordered it last night, online, so it's not as though it's been ordered a few days or weeks. i'm thinking of asking someone else to be a bridesmaid for me, in place of her. would that be wrong to do? help please. i need advice soon!