My son is getting married... in July. We/They are still in planning stages and nothing has been etched in stone as of yet. He announced they are expecting in early Oct. I suggested they move the wedding up a bit before she starts showing due to the fact that both families have older family members attending. I know that my parents (my son's grparents) as well other family members are what the kids say "old school" and I want to avoid any whispering.... if you know what I mean. I know it is their day and I am trying to be very respectful... so any advice would be most welcome.