Guidelines about inviting children
What are the guidelines about inviting children to weddings? I realize it's a choice thing, but I'm having trouble getting comfortable with this. Can babies and toddlers be excluded from the invitations, but say children over 12 included? Trying to come up with a plan that makes sense.
It seems mean to exclude people's young children knowing that childcare is difficult, yet we have limited seating and also don't want noisy children during the ceremony.
I've learned a lot reading the other posts, so thanks to everyone for participating.