My Maid of Honor is having a party for me, and it will be an out of state shower, and my fience and I have had 2 children together and have a house, which we've had for a few years. There isn't much that we need for our home. I've never been married and still would like to have all the things that women have when they get married. What I have asked my bridesmaids to do is to have a gift card shower, but have on the invite that your welcome to get a card from anywhere and that gifts are welcome. Do this seem to be an ok idea or does anyone else have any ideas?