A bit annoyed....but probably won't do anything about it
X's GF is annoying the he** out of me right now (more so than usual).
She's really annoying to begin with, anyway, which is why this new thing is pushing me over the edge. Here's a quick run-down of her annoying stuff (aside from her always overstepping):
-laughs too loud. I'm guessing on purpose to get attention or something. Usually I can't hear anything the other person said right before her guffaw.
-copies everything X says and does. If he goes to the restroom, she goes. If he's telling me a story, she copies the last 2 or 3 words he said. It's like talking to Pete and Repeat.
-comes to every game and practice. There's never a break from her copying him or her guffaws! She doesn't even live or work anywhere close, yet she's at every game or practice, sometimes even before I can get there. X picks DS up from my house for practice. Makes sense for HIM to be there. But she drives 20 miles out of her way to be there.
-She talks over me. For example, last night one of the kids wanted DS to hang out. I have custody so I speak up to say no because we have a bunch of stuff to finish at home and she cuts me off and says "We have to go to the grocery store". Huh? Why is she answering for me, and what does that have to do with DS? HE'S WITH HIS MOTHER, LADY!
-She smokes at baseball games and practices. For that matter, X does, too. Now I'm not against smokers, as I do occasionally, but I know (because he's told me) that DS is embarassed by it. DS hasn't seen me smoke in years because I don't smoke in my home or my car and I don't do it around him. But, they do. And DS smells like smoke when he rides with X. Can't they go 2 hours? Can you imagine what other parents have to explain to their kids? It's just rude to whip out the smokes and light one up at a children's event...IMO.
Which brings me to the most annoying thing...her clothes. I'm not judgemental, but she wears the tackiest clothes. She always looks like bad, no matter how much she teases her ratty hair or how many belts she puts on (seriously there was 4 one time). She has big boobs, and lately she's been wearing low-cut tops or tops that should have something underneath them.
Mind you, I only see her at kids baseball games. It's not like I hang out in the club with her.
Last Saturday, she wore a black and white striped top that laced up the front WITH NOTHING ON UNDERNEATH IT. She was all hanging out the entire game! Last night she wore some floral-print satin top with a sweetheart neckline and a shrug. I swear the top was made for 10 year olds.
I, personally, wouldn't have an issue with this if it wasn't for 1 thing....DS is 4'10" tall and she's 5'3" tall. So...when she hugs him (and she's a full-frontal hugger, too) he is right at the height where the girls are in his face.
I notice this because I noticed it with myself a log time ago, but no one else seems to. He's 11 and about to start puberty! Won't that be uncomfortable for him? Who is she trying to be? The sexy SM? This isn't a contest to see who the sexiest mom is (she wouldn't win anyway; she's not even a mom and definitely not sexy; not by a long shot)!
I ALWAYS cover up. I don't want him to be embarassed! I don't want to say anything to DS because I don't want him to start noticing if he hasn't. I think I should say something to X, but I don't know how to say it.
Anyone got any ideas?