BM and DH had a meeting with SS's counselor on Monday.
SS said something about the night that BM punched me being the "scariest night of his life."
DH said BM got very defensive then and said SHE has tried to move on but I won't do the same.
I'm not entirely sure how I haven't moved on---it's been two years and we don't talk or anything but there's no animosity on my part. It's just----I don't know how to explain it other than to say there's nothing to move on to.
DH has a child with her. I do not.
DH has to have some semblance of a working relationship with her. I do not.
DH has to parent SS with her. I do not.
But, of course, then the counselor tentatively suggested that a session with me and BM would be good.
okay, maybe I haven't "moved on." I don't know. If "moving on" constitutes me working things out with BM, then, no, I haven't.
What should I say?
Aside from the obvious no, thanks, not interested.
I know this will be an issue between me and DH at some point if the counselor pushes the issue.