Something or Nothing?
I posted this on the marriage forum as well. DH and I have had a lack of intimacy for a while now. I admittedly have pulled back from our sexual life as his delight with my breasts has gotten old. I have cysts in my breasts and it gets painful at times. I have told him to please start elsewhere and get me warmed up first, there is more to me-but to no avail. So it has become a turn off rather than a turn on. I mean when we have sex it's good but this whole boobie thing is tired.
Don't get me wrong I love and am very attracted to him and I'm thrilled my husband still finds me so attractive. But I wonder after going through an abnormal breast workup the last 2 years with all those frightening thoughts-what if I had to have a breast removed. Then what. And our marriage has gotten stronger though we have had a recent rough patch in dealing with a Skid issue-which I will put in another post-not a huge deal though as it had been in the past. All in all we've been better together and things have been good, he treats me well on a day to day basis but we have both pulled back in the intimacy area. I chalked it up to being busy, working, he comes to bed late and frankly we are just getting older.
So here goes what happened yesterday. Your take?
Yesterday I was trying to recall my daughter in laws email and could not find it in my email. Now my husband and I are open with eachother when it comes to passwords and pin codes, so I went into his email to retrieve our daughter in laws email. Much to my surprise there were messages and chat invites from a cheating website. So I followed the trail.
My husband registered using a pretty obvious screenname, and a different city. I easily got into his profile and it does not appear that he has answered any of these messages/chats. Just looks like he registered to look around I am guessing.
I'm not sure what if anything to do with this info. I admit evilly my first thought was to print up the profile and post it on our fridge for him to find but then thought I'll just sit on this for a bit and then make a decision. I don't feel trust for him now for the first time in our lives together. Which REALLY makes me not want to be intimate with him.
I know if he saw that I had done something like that it would be a massive blow-up. My question is, do men sometimes register at these sites just to look or is it typically because they are looking for a fling? Something or nothing? Leave it alone or confront?