BM keeps digging that hole she's in!
So BM called DH yesterday to let him know that she had arranged her alcohol evalutation for this week. She's on state insurance, and it has to be done at a state facility the courts use for these things. She was calling to tell DH that his financial portion is $50. (woohoo for that! We were expecting it to be a few hundred dollars.)
Well today she calls DH in a RAGE. Apparently, the facility called her back and needed to re-schedule the eval. because the GUARDIAN has to speak with them first and he's out of town this week. So they pushed her back to next week.
She is P*SSED! Basically, this proves to us that she had EVERY intention of going in and lying. She was telling DH that she is not going to do it, the deck is "stacked against her" and she has no chance of passing now. Instead, get this---she's decided she is going to refuse the evaluation (haha, even though it is court ordered) and she's going to file a motion to modify residential custody instead.
She is going to look pretty darn silly filing for more custody/residential custody for schooling purposes in the middle of an alcohol evaluation. And if she refuses to do it---well that is a violation of a court order and I imagine nothing good could come of that.
So DH said he didn't get what the problem is. She is maintaing that she hasn't had anything to drink in 40+ days, she "used to have a problem but doesn't anymore" and there is no need for her to have any kind of treatment.
Hmmm...isn't denial a classic sign of an alcoholic?
As DH pointed out, "ok, if you DON'T have a problem, then what is the big deak?" She claims it's just that she is set up for failure w/this treatment center because the guardian is going to put his slant on everything.
Is it just me or don't the FACTS of what she did kinda speak for themselves? The guardian isn't gonna slant anything!