Well sd called bm right after school today. Guess bm wanted to let her know she is off work this weekend and "if the kids get bored they can go over there". So she did not make plans with them, just let them know they could go sit at her house.
As for the movie bm wanted to take them on MOTHERS DAY to see the movie with her! LOL Like she deserves mother's day!! Sd said bm wants to take us to see the movie on May 9th. I looked at the calendar and told dh it was Mother's Day that day. Usually on Mother's Day we go out to a nice breakfast and see a movie with the kids or go to the zoo or something outdoors if it is nice. So he said to sd "tell her sorry but that is Mother's Day and we have plans".
That must have burned bm. But really how dare that witch think she can waltz in and play mom on that day. I am the mom. I do all the mom things for them....don't mean to be rude but that is MY day, not hers! She does not deserve it!
So DH told sd to tell bm she could have them the day before. SD said bm was not sure if she could take them to see the movie on another day, she would have to check with bf because he is buying the tickets??
I told sd that since bm is off for the weekend to invite her to her game on Sat morning and her brother's game Sat afternoon. Of course bm had an excuse on why she could not come! You see she shares a vehicle with bf and he has to work. And getting up early and driving him to work so she can come to their games would disrupt their siblings sleep schedules.