Why does everything have to be BM'S way or its a fight
Sorry I hope this is not to long....
Dh and BM have 50/50 custody with both parents as primary residential parents..
Dh and I live 5 houses from bm (this has been my house for 16 years) bm lives with parents
Unfortunately due to the economy dh being laid off and all the lawyer bills and the fact that dh pays for everything for ss, I am losing my house.I just cant pull all the weight for everything alone anymore. Not to mention that its not fair for my kids to go with out when their dad pays child support, and yes I do work not as much as I would like to due to our economy but I can certainly support my responsabilities. My DD whom is 16 has never moved before and she is excited about moving.
I have mixed feelings.. so dh and I decieded to move about 15 miles away far enough that I dont see bm everyday (and her family) yet close enough so that it does not affect ss so much.(ss is excited) we are moving to a condo in a gated community (note the gated part) no nightly drive bys asking where dh is if his car isnt in the driveway. WOOOOO
Bm tells dh that she was gonna move to and that they should keep ss in the same school and use her moms address.. dh agreed but said if shen not going to be involved with his school than he wants to put him in school near his new place, because dh takes ss to school 4 days a week plus volunteers alot.. (we'll see)
So next bm says it is dhs responsability to pick up ss and bring him to her during the summer.. (i think not) the divorce papers say the only time one parent does all the traveling is if they move out of the county (were not) only 15.5 miles from my drive way to the new place.
Why cant 2 adults whom both agreed to the 50/50 parenting be on the same page, and not fight over everything? Why does there always have to be a big fight and lawyers getting involved to do the right thing?
bm is with her 2nd sons dad. dh and I are married, why cant everyone move one from the drama...
To me the past should be the past, if you cant get over the past then how can you have any kind of future.