J is getting on my nerves!
Do any of you ladies ever want to strangle your significant other? hahahaha! I don't know what it is but the last few days J has been grinding on my very lasy nerve. Maybe it's because it's that fabulous time of the month or all the stress what with Biomom drama and moving?It's like all of my patience is spent on the kids and there is none left over for him.
They are all good reasons to be slightly annoyed but I have been seriously over reacting. For one thing any worry I have he always trivializes. I'm always "blowing things out of proportion". He never seems to see where I'm coming from but ratjer thinks I'm being a silly emotional girl.
He has been spending ALOT of time on a social networking site lately because alot of his friends from his old school are on there. All of his ex-girlfriends now message and IM him which irks me I'll admit but what REALLY bothers me is I don't hardly get to spend time with him as it is. Now when I am home he just seems interested in getting his hands on my laptop so he can check his profile. When I bring it up he tells me I'm being silly an they are all married with kids now and blah blah blah. It still pisses me off. I can't help it. Why drudge up the past?????
He also isn't helping as much as I think he should. Even though I am the one with fourty hour a week job I am the one constantly tending to Layla at night. During the day if she cries I have to be the one to go get her or he'll let go on for thirty minutes. He isn't as huggy lovey with her as he is with the girls either and that bugs me. I hug and love on all the kids so no one feels left out but it's like since she's a baby he figures she doesn't know the difference. It hurts my feelings for Layla.
I've been asking him to get boxes so we can move for a week and he still hasn't done it. I gave him the name of a company who is hiring but he still hasn't gone and put in an application. The clothes are piled a mile high but since I don't get in till 7:30 at night they haven't been done but he's home all day. He left me at the house with three sick kids so he could go play guitar when I had to be up for work in five hours.
If I mention any of this he just blows me off and accuses me of being hormonal which pisses me off even MORE! I don't want to make him out to be a bad guy because he really isn't but lately I have just stayed annoyed with him. Is it him or me and do you ladies ever get this way?????