So my husband is having an affair
He told me tonight. Our marriage has been going downhill for years...and for the last few months it was clear that we were both faking it and just going through the motions.
Still I'm hurt...he says a part of him still wants to be with me...but it would be easier if I just left him...
We have a mortgage, a home that I love, our children love each other, a chapter 13 bankruptcy...those aren't reasons to stay married...but what a mess.
I went through the shock...then the tears...now I am just sad. When does the angry spell come?