Bio Mom is pissed at us
Remember when I said we had to ifnally tell the girls mom's boyfriend is a not so nice man? He was kissing their butts, buying them toys and candy trying to get on their good sides and their mother was forcing him down their throats like a piece of chocalate cake so they thought, based on the one time they met him, that he's this great guy.
They were telling us things like "Stop being mean to C______, he's not a stranger" or "We like C______, he's gave us candy" and our favorite "You need to let us go with C____, he's nice to our mama."
We listened to it all we could and finally we had to tell them that C_____ is a bully and he's mean to their mom and that's why daddy won't let you go around him.
Do you all remmeber that post???
Well she called again for the first time in three weeks yesterday and the girls staretd in on her immediatly. You need to leave C_____. He is mean to you. We don't like him hurting you mama. He's a stranger. He needs to STOP giving us candy."
Well, she got on the phone with J and wanted to know why they were sayinghese things. He has already told her once the last time she called that he had told them the truth because we are sick of being the bad guys. He told her again and guess who snatched the phone? The jerk boyfriend who apparently listens in to all of her calls. He told J "Man, that's F###ed up!" J simply replied, "No, what's F***ed up is that you two put us in a position that we had to tell them to start with." Then J hung up.
So basically, the reason why mom isn't visiting is because we are now in a power struggle with the boyfriend. He is an abusive controlling eco maniac who won't let her go any where with out him and J won't allow him to be around the girls. Mom is too ignorant and selfish to tell him to shove it and come see her kids so here we are. I guess we won't see her till he beats the crap out of her again.