Just an observation...
Neither situation applies to me ... it might to hubby his oldest has a different BM than the 3 others ... but I don't see it anyway.
How come dad's are blasted when they have more children ...
But when mom's have second families they do not get blasted.
If dad does he gets blasted for not being a good enough dad the first time around ...did he learn from his mistakes and making up for it?
Most of the BM's on here that have gone on to have second families do not have custody of the older children are they trying to make up for their mistakes too?
Exceptions Yabber and LH but alcohol is a determining factor with those 2 BM's.
I am hoping to be a great grandparent and make up for the mistakes I made with my kids. (not that I made any afterall I have perfect children!!)
Just an observation ... I could be totally wrong.